I'm the kind of person who loves meaningful conversation just as much as undeniable chemistry. I laugh easily, ask a lot of questions, and genuinely enjoy getting to know what makes someone tick.
I'm new to the BDSM lifestyle and excited to learn at a pace that feels right. I'm drawn to people who value patience, communication, and mutual respect. Trust is something I believe should be earned through consistency, honesty, and care.
I'm fascinated by the psychological side of power exchange as much as the physical. Confidence, emotional intelligence, enthusiastic consent, and aftercare aren't bonuses to me—they're the foundation. I appreciate someone who can be both commanding and compassionate, creating a space where exploration feels exciting and safe.
Outside of the lifestyle, I'm a mom, a pool player, a lover of great music and unique fragrances, and someone who believes life is too short not to keep growing. If you're looking for authenticity, curiosity, and a genuine connection built on respect, I'd love to get to know you.
Hi everyone! I am looking for friends to have fun with and also be sexy with 😊 😉
If you like to dilly dally anywhere such as your living room, the park or local bookstore… play games (Uno, Sorry, CAH, etc. nothing against Catan), watch Adult Swim while baked (or not lol), travel to exciting or strange destinations, I’m absolutely down.
THE FACTS:
-I am queer and poly, and live with a nesting partner.
-I love ***s. I’m the guardian of a 9-year old corn snake 🐍
-Geeky! love Star Trek 🖖🏾Doctor Who, Twilight Zone and know way too much about classic television
-I have 7 dragon tattoos & 1 horseshoe tat
-I once went to an Insane Clown Posse concert in 1998.
-Both my parents were Scorpios. I am a Virgo. I will never take the zodiac that seriously 🤣
I take transparency, safety and consent seriously. I am not really good with exclusively online or text communication, I prefer moving to in-person interactions if we agree to do so.
No men or folks who identify as men, please.
NO MAGA!!! I am too old and too militant to have a colonized mind, so please don’t bring that toxicity to me in 2026.
I cannot wait to hear from you! 💜 let’s be friends!
Curious, soft hearted, open minded. Serious bottom. Bossy but a follower.
into:
boots, ***, cigars, chains, needles, knives, primal play, ALL THE STING AND MORE.
35+ please
Curious, soft hearted, open minded. Serious bottom. Bossy but a follower.
into:
boots, ***, cigars, chains, needles, knives, primal play, ALL THE STING AND MORE.
35+ please
I'm the kind of person who loves meaningful conversation just as much as undeniable chemistry. I laugh easily, ask a lot of questions, and genuinely enjoy getting to know what makes someone tick.
I'm new to the BDSM lifestyle and excited to learn at a pace that feels right. I'm drawn to people who value patience, communication, and mutual respect. Trust is something I believe should be earned through consistency, honesty, and care.
I'm fascinated by the psychological side of power exchange as much as the physical. Confidence, emotional intelligence, enthusiastic consent, and aftercare aren't bonuses to me—they're the foundation. I appreciate someone who can be both commanding and compassionate, creating a space where exploration feels exciting and safe.
Outside of the lifestyle, I'm a mom, a pool player, a lover of great music and unique fragrances, and someone who believes life is too short not to keep growing. If you're looking for authenticity, curiosity, and a genuine connection built on respect, I'd love to get to know you.
Hi everyone! I am looking for friends to have fun with and also be sexy with 😊 😉
If you like to dilly dally anywhere such as your living room, the park or local bookstore… play games (Uno, Sorry, CAH, etc. nothing against Catan), watch Adult Swim while baked (or not lol), travel to exciting or strange destinations, I’m absolutely down.
THE FACTS:
-I am queer and poly, and live with a nesting partner.
-I love ***s. I’m the guardian of a 9-year old corn snake 🐍
-Geeky! love Star Trek 🖖🏾Doctor Who, Twilight Zone and know way too much about classic television
-I have 7 dragon tattoos & 1 horseshoe tat
-I once went to an Insane Clown Posse concert in 1998.
-Both my parents were Scorpios. I am a Virgo. I will never take the zodiac that seriously 🤣
I take transparency, safety and consent seriously. I am not really good with exclusively online or text communication, I prefer moving to in-person interactions if we agree to do so.
No men or folks who identify as men, please.
NO MAGA!!! I am too old and too militant to have a colonized mind, so please don’t bring that toxicity to me in 2026.
I cannot wait to hear from you! 💜 let’s be friends!
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